This morning, my five-year-old Avery looked up at me, his eyes wide with concern, and said, “I don’t want you to die.” It stopped me in my tracks, the innocent yet profound words triggering a deep conversation about life and death. We talked about how people often die when they’re old, and how by then, I might have many children and a loving wife. But beneath the surface of our exchange, a stark reality loomed: we don’t know when our time to go will be.
I’ve seen too many people taken away before they reached the “old and ready” stage, a harsh reminder of life’s fragility. It’s an awareness that drives me to live with urgency, to create and act with the speed that I do. Yet, as I reflect on this conversation with my son, I realize how difficult it can be for others to maintain that same sense of urgency and intention.
Life’s Unpredictability
This uncertainty has colored my perspective, making me acutely aware of how unpredictable life can be. It’s a reminder that every moment matters, that every decision and action should be purposeful. Seeing men who seem to live without this urgency, like they believe they’ll be here forever, frustrates me. It highlights the delicate balance between living in the now and planning for the future, a balance many struggle to find.
The Need for Urgency and Balance
Living with urgency doesn’t mean rushing through life blindly; it’s about making the most of each day, finding that harmony between immediate action and long-term goals. It’s about ensuring that our daily steps align with our broader vision, creating a life of intention and fulfillment.
But maintaining this balance isn’t easy, especially for married entrepreneurs with kids. The demands of family, business, and personal goals can feel overwhelming, making it challenging to live with both urgency and balance.
A Call to Intentional Living
My conversation with Avery served as a poignant reminder to live each day with purpose, to seize every opportunity. We might not know when our time to go is, but we can choose to make every moment count. Whether it’s nurturing our families, advancing our careers, or deepening our spirituality, it’s crucial to approach life with intention.
If you’re struggling to find this balance, to integrate urgency into your daily life, let’s talk. Together, we can explore strategies to live with more intention, to create lives that reflect our values and goals.
Living with purpose, balancing urgency and intentionality, is a journey we all face. It’s about acknowledging life’s unpredictability while striving to make each day count. If you’re navigating this path and need support, let’s connect. Together, we can build a life that reflects our deepest aspirations.